1. Spanko Name, First Name, or Initials / Age / State (or Country)

Ruby Redd / 28 / Florida

2. What do you consider your role to be?
I consider myself to be a bottom—though sometimes I am a brat.

3. What does this role mean to you?
I am not necessarily submissive by nature. Being a bottom means that I am not interested in switching or being a Top. I want discipline and structure in my relationships, but I also want spanking just for the fun of it.

4. Do you have a favorite implement / position / role-play or scenario?
My favorite implement is probably the cane, but I also like leather straps. Wooden implements—hairbrushes, paddles, wooden spoons—those are probably the most effective for disciplining me. My favorite position is over the arm or back of a couch or the side of a bed, but I still love OTK, of course. I haven’t actually done a lot of role-playing…just a school scene or two…but I do have a few costumes. I would like to do a military role-play sometime, as well. I don’t have a favorite scenario—since discipline is my preference, I still dream of having a DD-oriented marriage in the future.

5. Most memorable spanking experience or favorite spanking fantasy…
I have so many memorable experiences and have had many great partners. I still remember the very first spanking I ever received. It was at the 8th grade graduation dance. His name was Travis and he was a “bad boy” type. It was just a few swats over my skirt, but it made me realize just how much I truly wanted to be spanked. It wasn’t long after that when I started dating my first “spanking boyfriend”…and the rest, as they say, is history.

6. Do you have a favorite spanking video or site?
I honestly don’t have a favorite spanking video…I like many different production companies for different reasons. Some are just plain fun to watch, some are funny, some have great scenes and costuming…they’re all wonderful in their own ways.

7. Have you ever been to a spanking party or munch? Thoughts…
I went to a BDSM-oriented munch and then a spanking party…once each. I wasn’t that impressed, to be honest. I think going to a ShadowLane party would be totally different, though. Maybe I’ll be able to make it to one someday. I would like to see group leaders treat munches and parties differently. Younger men tend to be left completely out of the mix—and single men are rarely invited to after-munch parties…or so it seems. This area really needs a group that is spanko-oriented…we have several BDSM groups, but there are so many spankos out there who just want some spanking fun.

8. If you have a spanking partner, how did you meet? If single, are you actively seeking a partner?
I don’t have a spanking partner right this minute. I have been in many spanking relationships in the past…from the spanking-friendship type to the full-blown dating relationship type. I am looking for a partner or disciplinarian again (took some time off for awhile) and am hoping to find someone that can provide discipline and friendship.

9. What qualities do / did you look for in a spanking partner?
Big hands? Actually, there are a lot of qualities, I suppose. I have different “requirements” for long-term dating relationships than I do for spanking friends or for disciplinary partners.

10. Final thoughts…
I hope that you'll take a moment to check out my blog and the rest of this site (the catalog and links). I really enjoy researching for my blog articles, putting together picture layouts, and chatting with people in the spanking community. I am always pleased to receive email or comments…as most bloggers are. It’s great to see the community is alive and well and on the Internet.